Busted!
Remember that Etsy supplier I had an issue with regarding the wedding favours I wanted? Did some idle research today and realised she's just reselling wholesale stuff from another website that I'm pretty sure is not hers! This is not okay by Etsy's standards last I checked.
I'm not going to get my money back but I totally reported this to Etsy. I don't think the supplier even knew she was breaking any rules, but too bad.
I think that this might be karma, owner of Blissful Party Favors, aka reseller of stuff from Event Blossom.
Does this make me petty? A bit. Do I care? Nope. Shoot, I'm a hair's breadth away from inviting other people to report the shop, just in case Etsy decides to ignore me or thinks my report is too soft.
Thing is, if they'd just given me my money back I would have had no cause to do any research and, on finding some dirt, decide to then mess with their livelihood. Tough shit.